Valentine’s Day Special: If You Want to Avoid Betrayal in Love, Rely on Evidence, Not Emotions – Advice from Detective Priya Kakade
Mumbai : Against the backdrop of Valentine’s Day, Priya Kakade has urged citizens to remain cautious amid rising cases of relationship disputes, digital affairs, and matrimonial fraud. “If you feel suspicious in a relationship, instead of engaging in direct confrontation or making decisions driven by emotions, it is essential to verify the truth through legal and practical means,” she said.
Recent shocking incidents have unsettled society. In the Raja Raghuvanshi murder case in Indore, it was revealed that the wife had allegedly orchestrated the crime. Similarly, in the murder case of Saurabh Rajput, who was serving in the Merchant Navy, his wife and her alleged lover were arrested. These incidents have underscored the seriousness of extramarital relationships and digital affairs.
Digital affairs, online chatting, social media connections, and relationships formed through dating apps are increasing rapidly. Affordable internet and widespread smartphone use have made it easier to connect with strangers. While some relationships remain limited to online flirting, others evolve into emotional attachments, leading to in-person meetings and even financial transactions. In such situations, cases of honey traps, financial fraud, and blackmail are also on the rise.
Kakade stated that certain signs of suspicious behavior should not be ignored. Sudden behavioral changes, hiding mobile phones, coming home late under the pretext of work, and frequent chatting with unknown individuals may indicate potential risks. However, she emphasized that instead of making allegations based solely on suspicion, one should conduct preliminary verification before taking further steps.
“It is important to choose a reliable and legally operating detective agency. Ensure confidentiality before sharing information. Collecting digital evidence such as photos, chats, and call logs can be helpful. However, avoid emotional decisions and act only after verifying the truth,” Kakade clarified.
She also warned about fraud occurring through matrimonial websites. A recent case in Pune involved a young IT engineer who was cheated of lakhs of rupees. Under the pretext of marriage and citing financial difficulties, the accused extorted a large sum and later absconded. In such cases, police often treat them as family matters with limited intervention, making thorough background verification before marriage essential, she said.
Meanwhile, there has also been an increase in inquiries from parents seeking to monitor the behavior of their children who have come to Pune for education. Kakade mentioned that parents from various states have approached her agency to gather information regarding their children’s company, substance abuse, or risky behavior.
Through her organization, Swift Detective and Investigation, she claims to have handled over 1,085 cases since 2006. The agency collects evidence in cases related to extramarital affairs, financial fraud, corporate investigations, and pre-matrimonial verification, assisting in legal proceedings.
On the occasion of Valentine’s Day, she emphasized that while celebrating love, priority should be given to trust, transparency, and responsibility. “Love may be blind, but do not make blind decisions,” was the message conveyed by Priya Kakade.
